Tuesday 31 January 2017

"Hey, listen!"


Communication is the only way to express how we feel. The person who sits next to us wouldn't know how we feel if we didn't communicated with he/she. There are so many ways to tell others how we feel. Some people show it by their facial expression, from their gesture when they are doing something, etc. The most common way to communicate is speaking. We speak to deliver our feeling so that the others can understand how we feel. But what if the person who we spoke to are not paying attention so they are not really understand about how we feel? Or maybe they just pretend to understand our feeling because they want to look nice in front of us, but actually they don't care about our feeling at all? There are saying that "The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply." I am not saying that we shouldn't reply when someone is talking to us. I am just saying that before we reply them, make sure that we listen and understand what they are talking about. Basically we, as human being, only need someone who willing to listen to understand how we feel. Can you imagine if the whole world always wants to talk but no one is listening? It's terrifying

Monday 30 January 2017

CHOOSE YOUR MUSIC WISELY

Music is something that we can’t live without. Maybe not everyone realise about this fact but some of us already aware about this need. For you who has not realise, you can start realising it from now. I bet you never passing days without a music, at least one song per day, either you realise it or not. You might hear it from your car’s radio or your children singing or a shop at the street which is playing random music out loud. That’s where our serious problem starts. You can hear it everywhere, at every time, and by everyone. Actually this won’t be a big deal if people know how to choose their music wisely. Unfortunately not everyone knows how to choose their music wisely, especially those who under age. They don’t know what to listen to. What they know is just "I don't care if I'm not old enough to listen to a song. As long as everyone listen to it and it sounds good, I will definitely listen to it because I don’t want to be the one who left behind." So they start to listen to songs that are related to adult life, which is the most popular song these days like love songs and broken-heart songs. We need to get rid this mindset because you are what you listen to. And right now they are grow up too fast by listening to these songs and that's a bad idea.